I believe that there are some people who do not know what is the best for themselves. They would often ask people to make their own decisions so that they would know what to do. In The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks, written by Rebecca Skloot, Henrietta would often prioritize spending time with her family instead of taking full care of her health. Only when she was really sick, was when she decided that she should visit the hospital to get herself checked up. I have several personal experiences that I have encountered that really shows how certain people are pretty clueless about what they think is the best for them. There was a time when my friend did not know whether to have a day where she can just relax, or if she should complete her late assignments that day. To me, I know that I would prefer to complete my late assignments, but to her, she did not know which was better for herself.
Sometimes similar situations would also happen to myself as I am also quite indecisive, sometimes I would need my parent’s guidance for me to know what is best for me; however, my parent’s guidance might not always be right for me. Thinking about which classes I should take next year, what I should study in university, are all examples of not knowing what is the best for me. Sometimes I would also ask my parents and all they would say is “up to you” or “ask your friends”, I feel like this just makes it harder for me to pick what the best for me is. I would often do research on what would benefit my future and see if I would be happy with the outcome, which sometimes might help, but sometimes different websites provide different information; therefore, I feel like it would be better to talk to someone who has experienced what I am interested in. I need to eventually learn to make my own choices and know what is the best for me, in order to gain new knowledge and opportunities.
It is typical to know and not know whether or not something is best for you. It depends on what the outcome would be for the choices you picked, some may be more difficult to choose than the other. Guidance from mutuals or acquaintances might help, as some may have more experience and would know what they are talking about; even so, sometimes it would also be ideal to just decide on your own to see what is the best for you by thinking of advantages and disadvantages. Every choice made would affect your future; thus, it is understandable to not know what is best for yourself.
“Indecisiveness Can Cost You Your Business L Talk Business With Howard”. Talk Business With Howard, 2017, https://www.talkbusinesswithhoward.com/indecisiveness-can-cost-you-your-business/.