Sep 13, 2016 | By Curie Chiou

 

Having a good relationship with others is always an important lesson we should strive and learn in our lives. At home, family members are our best practice members.

A family that lives in Guanghua 1st road in Kaohsiung, has family relationship problem between the daughter and the dad. This family is overall a family with a peaceful relationship, but the only pity is the unstable relationship between the daughter and the dad. The daughter doesn’t like her dad because she thinks her dad is always standing against her, and she thinks her dad loves her brother more than herself. On the other hand, her dad thinks the daughter just treats him unreasonably.

The most recent fight they had is on Sep 8 at 12 o’clock in the midnight. The father is convincing the daughter to sleep earlier and stop watching Korean drama. The situation so far was normal and peaceful. Suddenly, the father said the daughter is not even doing her homework, that caused her to sleep really late everyday. The daughter is reasonably furious, she yelled at her dad, explaining that she is really stressed, with bunches of homework waiting for her to do everyday. She started to cry like a baby, but at the same time, her tone contains pain, because everyone knew she has good grades, so does her dad. In this situation, even though the girl is standing up and protecting her rights, she used the wrong method and built a negative reputation and impression to the neighborhood.

The action the girl should take instead is to calm down, control her temper, and communicate with her dad. The next day, neighbors started to ask the family what happened last night. The girl regretted everything she did and talked sincerely and nicely to her dad whole day; ideally, her dad treated her back with respect and caring. Sep 8 was horrible to the girl, but she learned a lesson.

Family relationship could be shaped up in a moment, but also deteriorate in a sudden. It’s only a decision we make and an idea that comes from our mind. Family is composed of love, unlimited love, so have a good relationship with every family members in your family, you’ll feel joyful, blessed, and your heart will be warmed up.