For most high school students, the next level of education is college/university. When I was younger, I always thought that to get into a good school, I have to maintain my grades above an A-. I had little knowledge on standardized tests such as SATs and ACTs, and the actual college application process. As I entered high school, I realized that colleges want someone who is well-rounded—someone who excels in many different aspects of one’s life. Suddenly, grades were no longer as important. Colleges want us, want me, to have a enjoyable high school experience, in which I can show my personal growth. I began to join clubs such as student council, World Scholars, Model United Nations, and our school newspaper (KASPER). This realization of my misunderstanding broaden my perspective on not only my future but also my life now.
A simple misunderstanding can lead to major impact on one’s life. For example, if I did not correct my misunderstanding, I would have placed more energy on getting grades rather than giving myself space to grow. The consequences of misunderstanding can be seen in The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skloot.
When Deborah told Skloot not to include a specific word in the book, Skloot said she would not and smiled.
“‘I won’t,’ I said, and then I made a mistake. I smiled. Not because I thought it was funny, but because I thought it was sweet that she was protective of her sister” (283).
Deborah must have thought that Skloot was smiling to cover up a lie.
“‘You’re lying,’ Deborah yelled, flipping off my tape recorder and clenching her fists” (283).
Deborah was extremely angry as she has trust issues due to past conflicts with White doctors of Johns Hopkins.
“‘Who sent you? Who’s paying you?’ she yelled, her hand still holding me against the wall. ‘Who paid for this room?’ (283).
This situation turned violent as Deborah pushed Skloot against the wall. It was after explaining everything, Deborah understood why Skloot was smiling and both sides forgave each other.
Citation
- Skloot, Rebecca. The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks. New York, Random House, 2010.